@@hujinja

Such a beautiful and wise message. Took me many decades to learn this lesson. But I’m so grateful I have. ✌️💖 Trust in yourself, embody love and it will find you.

@@abrum8869

God, nature and life are unyielding cruel

@@SamsungM33-t7z

No one loves forcefully no one ask to love me forcefully so this is vise versa every thing depends on individual person unnecessary talking means also wasting their time

@@cwmamakin1

Love this ❤ we learn the hard way. The long way. Once learned, and filled with a heart that loves and loves self ( filled with the love of God)

@@pimpshiza

Holy Shit!

@@iwantcheesypuffs

Looking at the comments, I have never seen an Allan Watts talk that was so widely misunderstood. This applies to love and friendship. Once you realize that boundless reservoir within yourself, which has always been there, then love and friendship will naturally gravitate to you. You won't have to hope or desire to find it. It will find you. And you will have the keen awareness to know when that happens, and to know those who really and truly are just acting what they believe is love.

@@raymondjames2590

We have taken love as an exchange oh oh

@@HOOPLA372

Can I ask u guys this!

How many people here need a ‘healing’ or to be met with ‘understanding’ in a situation that caused conflict.

Is it possible to give that healing ❤️‍🩹 to ourselves . As often times the other refuses or doesn’t see a problem in the first place.

Why do we seek a healing from a person that hurt us in the first place?

@@AuthenticSelf-Guidance

Iam so grateful for these lectures!! ❤❤❤

@@kirvu9677

In short: Beauty captured is lost.

@@williammills5597

I’m good with being by myself, and I don’t need or want someone else.

I’ve found solitude in the quiet.

@@LorienSummons34

❤

@@daniellef7261

This is just incredible. And it flows so easily from his gifted tongue. He speaks truth.

@@u2havenosoul

The truth is few people would look back and think about the “love” they had😂because they are blindly heading towards the finish line and whatever works works. To them, whether you call it love or trade doesn’t matter. They get what they need (even if it’s exchanging benefits) that’s enough for them.

@@KenS-z5m

Its beautifully said ❤

@@HOOPLA372

It’s not about ‘ love’ it’s about people hurting you untill u just have to walk away … that’s where u meet yourself. It’s always like that. The one that loves/gives the most gets hurt the most.

@@Mad.Recovery

To all woman who wake up in the middle of life like that, I am here lying awake forever to meet you.

@@Tom-uk2ow

Love most overated BS in whole history of mankind

@@pocahontas330

🙏✨💖

@@michaeldavid7802

*Enlightning passage :'' [...] not knowing they were never half a person to begin with''.* As it is an idea learned at a young age, that develops into a core belief, that is reinforced or not by experiences. I think of people from minorites, who have been taught that they are unlovable across lifespan, the ''work'' of learning to love oneself must be colossal and yet, even more important. Just sharing a thought.

@@Neville_Goddard_Teaching

If your cup is not empty it will not fear of losing ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@@dougfunyuns

“The depth you face yourself is the depth in which you can meet another” Amazing.

@@marvthedog1972

"you were cherished not for your being, but for the service you rendered." OH man that cuts deep.. really really deep.. whew.. ouch.. gonna bleed a little from that one..

@@ToddRocker871

He speaks truth. He speaks of the idol we seek. Anything but Christ is the worldwide cry.

@@ChrisAbikhalil

" Those who have nothing will seek from you which you have not given for yourself and you will mistake their hunger for love. "

Took me some time to understand this masterpiece


It's actually linked to you being connected to your depth, which is your divine nature or pure consciousness. Once you anchor yourself to that origin which is found through meditation and transcending everyday for a certain amount of time, then automatically your body and mind will have a feeling of contentment, you will feel like you have everything , you don't need anything from anyone or anything from the outside world ( validation or love that is seeked from other ) . Why ? Because the more you root yourself to your being , the more become love, you become it. And only then after you exube that light , then you actually love and give your partner without the need of them to fulfill something inside of you , because you are already fulfilled . Now imagine the sun, it doesn't tell the earth I owe you something, it just gives warmth and life with nothing in return. Now two hearts or two people who are in that state can make a lasting relationship, because it's built on rocks as Alan said and not on sand .

@@wmccourtney2814

Good work

@@Naturehealingperspectives33

Beautiful and true! Just BE love ❤️

@@georgevassey3729

The most wisdom I have ever heard in such a short amount of time.A wise and true philosopher who is truly underrated.Peace...................................................

@@djb-w9q

Brilliant!

@@Simontolivar

Non transactional friendship is far superior.

@@Simontolivar

What a terrible imposition to expect this of another person , seems like the ultimate selfishness.

@@aranmaciver5243

❤

@@aletheaespino

So very good. Thank you. ❤

@@Mamaspinsei

But forreal how can there be no emptiness?

@@mauriciosanchez8318

Thanks for this amazing talks

@@alikarakok-pi7im

I pitied myself when I listen

@@bobbruce4135

Simps will try to buy fake love.

@@garyarch6879

I’ve heard a lot of Alan Watts but that one hit the mark with me more than any other has before. I wish I would have discovered him sooner in my life. His wisdom is something that could’ve served me well.

@@TornadoOfSouls777

Man, I really needed this today! ❤

@@timmy1874

The SUN never says to the EARTH..."You owe me."

@@egp2626

This hurts...so much...Clinging for the best in a non-warm environment.😣

@@Ola-cp5nk

“The question is not how can I find
someone to love me, but the question is
how can I become someone who overflows?
For when love is no longer a plea but a
gift, when joy is no longer chained to
another's approval, you will see that to
love and be loved is not something to
chase. It is the way you already are.
You are not a half searching for the
other half. You are whole. And from that
wholeness, love flows, finding those who
recognize it instantly. Then love ceases
to be a hunt or a bargain or a desperate
keeping. It becomes the quiet, steady
light of the sun, needing nothing in
return, yet warming the whole sky” ♥️

@@DebbieFenlon-b4i

Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose❤️

@@sertaoexpedicoes

So beautiful!

@@pamelaschifano3234

Beautiful ❤

@@maggiethecat1538

He fails to recognize and acknowledge one of the most basic Truths. Everything is karma based, marriage, and attachments, all of it. He's missing a huge part of Truth.

@@jasminfernandez2678

❤

@@ALLdfdmOne

« …it becomes the quiet steady light of the sun, needing nothing in return, yet warming the whole sky. »

@@carelesswolf9878

I used to always say..."I'm in love with the concept of love".

@@RjMac-o6y

Love isn’t a warmth to keep its to keep that love growing as a just like a flower it will
Wither a bit more at times but in the seasons pass if continued to waterd it will always be there that beauty kept there’s isn’t any ugly flower it was once brillant in color but in time only the eyes of the beholder will always see that beauty with in and the spear by the eye