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5 Reasons Why You DON'T LIKE To Be Around People
Nick Maher

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In this video, I discuss the reasons why you don't enjoy the company of other people. It's not what you think! Enjoy, and I hope this video helps 😁 ✅ Create a Rewarding and Relevant Retirement Want retirement freedom? Book a call to enquire about me mentoring you (spots are limited): https://nickmaher.as.me 📺 Watch Next - My Top 5 Videos: #1. https://youtu.be/urmG5WV2IE4?si=V33pxFGiTz21Kv7f #2. https://youtu.be/mJWcidA9eEA?si=Tp4FPGtfijmf9YL2 #3. https://youtu.be/3Jkn22dXs3Y?si=Zs5ENgiyJrZbYMNy #4. https://youtu.be/RSk-_haEvSc?si=LzHhWIREOGtf2flN #5. https://youtu.be/nIitjClzIxg?si=Ouq23kBmwUoncaHC 📚 Recommended Books: The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware https://amzn.to/3UPhMYm From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks https://amzn.to/3QprgIq Die with Zero by Bill Perkins https://amzn.to/3SgdJ6T The Path by Professor Michael Puett https://amzn.to/43c6eCm ✅ Like my t-shirts? Buy here: Pink Floyd Logo, Grey https://amzn.to/4bW2CHf The Jam Spray Logo, Grey https://amzn.to/4bH08Nt The Jam Spray Logo, White https://amzn.to/3yHnJyZ David Bowie Hunky Dory, Blue https://amzn.to/3xatMvs Genesis An Evening With, White https://amzn.to/47vh7Bj The Clash Guns of Brixton, Black https://amzn.to/4aJcu6G David Bowie Hammersmith Odeon, White https://amzn.to/46JeWJP ✅ Buy my pop memorabilia: David Bowie Hammersmith Odeon poster https://amzn.to/4fg7jhJ ⚙️The equipment I use to record videos: DJI Mic - https://amzn.to/46OGPjW Boya IPhone Mic - https://amzn.to/3Axf0jK Manfrotto Tripod - https://amzn.to/46KddnI DJI Osmo Pocket 3 - https://amzn.to/4djzzij Boya Shotgun Mic - https://amzn.to/46JKbEI Ulanzi iPhone Holder - https://amzn.to/3Ax4zN4 Purple Panda Lavalier Mic - https://amzn.to/4fLdaw0 iPhone Lightning to 3.5mm Headphone Jack Adapter - https://amzn.to/3yP00NH ⏰ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Intro 0:29 Reason #1. Introversion 1:23 Reason #2. Above Average Intelligence 2:07 Reason #3. Hanging Around With The Wrong People 3:21 Reason #4. Trust Issues 5:03 Reason #5. Stress-Induced Social Aversion 6:10 Conclusion 6:29 Historic York 6:59 Bloopers DISCLAIMER Some of the links above are affiliate links. If you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost! #nickmaher #retirement #retireearly

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@@josecuevas1743

The more I see the people, the more I love my wife....


@@avispielrein1360

Hi, Your Channel is a ROCK!! great insights, excellent valuable information. you are one of a kind. Thanks for sharing


@@cshartley101

I used to be a people person, then people ruined it for me.


@@KB-uc4pb

All five of those reasons. Why I avoid people. I’d rather be quiet and observe from a distance or leave.


@@mrspleats

You are so right Love the confirmation ❤


@@gordonfernandes6873

Frankly I've yet to find even a single person at 50+ , who's yet to be of any real assistance to me , most in fact almost all of even family, forget friends, have only given me pain & debt in some sort or the other , So I steer clear Now, off all & mighty & mind my own business 😨🙏😱


@@robshorts

Amongst other reasons, 'groups' nearly always seem to have at least one trouble maker. The one who has an ego and wants to be in charge.


@@sarahsmith5045

Does this apply to adult children̈ and family members


@@kellycassutt3165

Well, you live on a rather small island, what?


@@LorettaGrace-kf7kh

Most of these points resonate with me....and I wouldn't have it any other way!


@@ronaldwhite6476

I keep myself to myself because the public is just full of morons. Everywhere morons like a bunch of ants they are everywhere.


@@RabanRobtheKnob

It's not about people for me. I'm hard to relate to. I do my best to lessen that.


@@CarolOwen-cj4sq

Negotiating the multiple egos is tiring.


@@mark31995

They judge me harshly and make me feel bad about my self … I’m not a likable person according to others


@@Conflictinator

I've found it's lovely having a calm, like-minded companion to share things with, that doesn't bother or pester me. I'm just as fine being alone, but I like to have someone to test out ideas on.


@@jm7578

Throughout my whole life, I was an extremely extroverted person. Now in my mid 50s, the only people I wanna be around are my three children and my wife. And that’s it.


@@hojo70

I can give you way more reasons than 5. I got pages


@@jeremyhofmann7034

Will someone please make plans with me and then cancel them so I can feel relaxed?


@@sarahjones-jf4pr

NEVER QUESTIONED IT KNOW EXACTLY WHY ........FAKE, UNTRUSTWORTHY, BOORISH AND THAT IS JUST THE START.


@@The_Mandarin-1

The requirement of dumbing yourself down so that others can understand you is vexing. They say to be yourself but when I am it "Kills" the discussion.


@@blockcl

As for the people who are bothered by those of us who prefer to be alone, I say tough- that's your problem, not mine.


@@trythatinasmalltown-d7h

Immigrants are loud dirty they shove at the check out stand they steal they are cheap vans on welfare


@@patriciaparsons1905

Not intelligent my son's are..I just know things naturally 😊


@@patriciaparsons1905

I like people I am just cranky and tired 😊


@@JFD1960

Love my own company. Outside of family and a couple of close friends I just can't be bothered with their conversations. Most times they're gossiping which bores me. Stay happy 😊


@@Blackwater1952

I personally detest being around people . I like my own company ONLY. Banal chatter is draining and boring…I am not interested in meaningless chit chat.


@@impalaSS65

Also, being alone means thinking my own threads uninterupted, and I ride my motorcycle as fast as I want. I do my workout at home - saving hours.


@@peterdavies6587

I don't like people full stop.


@@artboy57

I was a military brat and we moved every year or two until I was in high school. When you don't know anyone in your new location you learn how to entertain yourself. Then I became an artist, for me a very solitary endeavor. Now retired, I'm still not happy in crowds of more than a dozen or so and I'm certainly rarely lonely!


@@PatrickDoyle-u9d

I'm a stable introvert, I married an unstable extrovert, it didn't end well 😢.


@@nolaparker9574

How can you be an introvert talking to 58.4 subscribers? Genuine question. I am an introvert by the way.


@@onlinespecialpo8171

Most people will polluted your mind.


@@Angel-mk3em

I didn't watch the whole video, but have read a number of the comments. That leads me to suggest these people could greatly benefit from watching Eckhart Tolle's videos.


@@sharonhoughton4702

Have always been introverted. Had a few good friends during my life but feel happier on my own. Had trust issues from an early age and still find it hard to trust. Now retired I feel very happy. I can choose when I see people and when I dont.


@@user-kh5vb8ti9z

LAST NIGHT'S DREAM haunts me. It was about fat women, tons of them, all ready for something. What? I can't say. There were salt and pepper shakers all over the place. I was terrified. I protected my meat. I fucking had to!

DAD DEEP-FRIED DELICIOUS BEES when I was young for birthday parties and Jewish celebrations. I had a bowlful of hornets when he wasn't looking. It was like eating poker chips with no socks on.

I'M GOING TO RECORD A MUSIC ALBUM called 𝘉𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘭 𝘔𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 so when somebody asks, "Where's that song from?" I'll say, "It's the number two song from my 𝘉𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘭 𝘔𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 album."


@@DennisPanganoron

This is me.I dont want to be around people.But I dont hate.


@@wokeupandsmellthecoffee214

I'm also 64 retired recently and I feel I cant tolerate people, I feel better in my own space and doing things at home.


@@WillieTonka

The more I hear people out in public giving out unsolicited political opinions,
the less I want to be around people. I'm happy just being around nature.


@@madelinevegas8123

I don’t like being around my family to mush drama.


@@Luigigii

I enjoy the company of friends and colleagues but I enjoy being in my own company more.


@@Earthstein

I don't like being around people because I like being alone. I get invited to small and medium social gatherings on a weekly basis. I sincerely love people. But, at seventy-two, my time is precious and short; I've seen "it all" is the feeling I have. Except good health and spending a lot of my money, I have no more goals in life. I am very happy, I think.


@@laoch5658

they want you to be alone. isolated. because when people come together ideas and movements happen, they do not want this.


@@graham167

I'm considered to have a level of intelligence that is well above average, but strangely enough, some of the closest friendships I ever had were with people who didn't go to college. They just happened to share some of the same interests and values. There was no underlying rivalry or envy, only mutual respect.


@@gregmijjares3725

My father used to say ! The more I see the more I wonder ! Usually he would say it after watching the news ! 😮😆😆😝😝😎


@@Littlehouse56

Collecting stuff just doesn’t work! Happiness comes from the heart.


@@Paul-v8v4j

I don't mind in the least being around people; I just don't need them. I'm special just like everyone else. I said that diddle I.


@@the-comments-poet

The crow

The plumage is shiny and of a deep black
Flitting from tree to branch
As if following me
Disrupting the lassitude of my steps

« Bring me aim and clarity »
I pester
« I need focus — I want resolve »

« Is this mighty gift not to your liking »
The crow tells me of my surroundings
As if mocking me

« Do not seek what you already have
It’s in the dark that the candle shines most »


@@ralphrotten6912

I like mankind, it's people I can't stand...


@@robertwalker7924

i drank to cope with people. retired and sober through aa now and happy as anything in my own skin and still like my own company and my book...


@@skylongskylong1982

Find your own tribe.
To many loners I have met seem to be bitter, and twisted.
Life is for living, and on your death bed most people regret not making the most of your life.
Start today doing what you always wanted to do.